The Importance of Giving Firmness
Married Man Sex Life, the blog, is fantastic. It’s not just because Athol adroitly brings game to married life, it’s also because Athol shows that married man sex, even married with children sex, need not be passionless high-order masturbation. In other words, married man sex life can still provide fucking worthy of the best gamesmen on the interweb. The blogosphere of game tends to focus on single men. That’s understandable. Men tend to savor the conquest, men tend to seek out variety. Don’t venture too deep into the pigeon hole, though. Variety need not be simply a plethora of pussies; variety can be the plethora of fucking one applies to the same pussy.
There is but one requirement: make sure the woman you marry is worth the effort. Achieving variety in marriage is different, and more difficult, so you want to make sure your efforts are worthwhile. You for damn sure want to avoid applying such effort to some bitch who convinced you she was worthy of marriage simply because her mental timeline ticked down to “time to get married.”
I’m not really going to help you with finding the right woman. That’s an individual decision. You have to figure out if you need to pop the question or move on to greener pastures on your own. One clue is that if you consider other women greener pastures, you probably don’t need to start ring shopping. Matter of fact, if the biggest part of impending nuptials is ring shopping, then you really don’t need to start ring shopping. If you can propose to your woman over a glass of whiskey with a cheap and modest ring and she gets so excited she squirts during the ensuing fucking, then you’re on the right track. You can also look to descriptions like Jack Donovan’s “Manly Women of Virtue,” though I wouldn’t ascribe the word manly to my Penelope. She’s a classic woman.
When I was a senior in high school, my father gave me a bit of odd, but priceless, advice. He told me to always make sure I pleased my lover. He went on to say that if I pleased her, I would always be satisfied. This is a point of divergence from the single game sites. The only thing is, it actually is not a point of divergence. It’s all a matter of tactics and semantics.
Married game is just as focused on the self as single game. Your needs are the goal. Her needs are ancillary. However, if you do it correctly, then you both end up satisfied. You want your wife to offer cliched complaints at lunch with her friends. “My husband is insatiable. The other morning, our 2 year old woke us up at 4 a.m. Once we got her settled down, he pounced and before I knew it we were having a quickie at 4:30 a.m. On a work day.” She will phrase this as though it is a complaint. Her friends will read the subtext. She’s bragging. The twinkle in her eye and satisfied look on her face will give away the truth. Her friends will be jealous. Your wife will be thinking about the next opportunity to receive your glorious manhood.
Back to my father’s advice. Women are not chaste puritans sitting around on a block of ice. They want to get fucked. They want to get fucked really well. Just as a solid reputation can precede the single man’s game, a solid reputation can precede the married man’s advances. Make her say “ooooooohhhh!,” as Eddie Murphy described back when he was still funny, and you will never want. You will never ask for blowjobs or doggy style or cowgirl. You will just receive and receive and receive. Sometimes, on the weekends or when you both have the day off, you’ll get questions like “It’s 2 p.m. The kids are napping. Why are we not fucking?” When you get such questions, drop your pants and say, “What’s this about ‘not?’”
The world is waiting for you. All you have to do is take it.